Looking for a connection..... Not looking for one time only - I can get that in a bar. So can you. Instead I'd like to meet somebody that wants to join me in an ongoing relationship that we both enjoy - in and out of the bedroom. I am an educated, well-read and successful guy looking for a friend, playmate, and a chance to continue to explore the mind/body connection that we all crave. I'm a single professional with a great job and lots of friends. I like to be outside as much as possible, but also enjoy a good dinner made even better with great conversation. I love physical, athletic sex - every muscle in each other's bodies straining to have as much of each other as possible. I've got a nasty, kinky side that needs to be fed. I am naturally an aggressive dom and I enjoy the pleasures of the D/s power exchange. Most importantly, I want my partner and I to extend our boundaries mentally, physically, and if we are really fortunate - spiritually. That kind of growth can come in may forms and I want to explore them all with a willing and adventurous partner. Don't get me wrong - I love great, spontaneous and creative sex in thrilling and unusual ways. I just like it better when I enjoy having breakfast with my partner the next day. Its not exactly the kind of conversation you have around the office; therefore, I l look forwarded too meet somebody here on AFF who is interested in the same. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\**I let my membership lapse in 2014 so if you want to get to know each other, you'll have to say Hi first. If I hotlist you, that's my way of saying that I'd like to get to know you.

My Ideal Person Your age, race and body type aren't important - attitude is.

You are fun, confident, creative, and a great person to be around. You probably have a wild streak that few know about - maybe nobody does. We'll keep it that way.

You enjoy sexy, spontaneous encounters as much as you like long conversations over drinks and laughing ourselves silly over a stupidly funny movie.

You will join me for drives, hikes, bike rides, dinners, music and of course many long nights of play.

You will want variety in our time together and that includes our sex life. Together, we'll be open to exploring all kinds of experiences and encounters.

If it turns into something long-term, so much the better but that's not a requirement at this point.

I travel a lot for work and it would be great if you could join me occasionally - especially on my longer trips to NY and LA and maybe even a trip to Europe someday if we really get along.

Couples and single partners are great too as long as everybody is OK with it. I've done some swapping in a past relationship and found it quite enjoyable. I would love to find somebody to join me in exploring that side of our relationship. It can take time to build up the trust but it is worth it.

I hate to have to add this, but disease and drug-free is a must.

If any of that gets your attention, drop me a note tell me about it.

If we click, it could get quite unruly....

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I just shared it with somebody and now I'm dying to try
it. I have this fantasy about being Santa and delivering
a special package to my partner. Crazy, huh?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A store dressing room, Anywhere outdoors

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Honestly, I haven't.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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