We are an M/s couple who have lived together as Master and slave for many years. We have reached the point in our relationship where we have decided to include a playmate. This will start with email,move to text, then to a date. We must be sure the chemistry exists at every turn. I have been a Master since the early 80's and I have learned many things. The ten basic commandments of my peral dominance are: 1. Thou shalt control thyself before trying to control another 2.Thou shalt never forget that to rule is a privilege not a right 3.Thou shall remember that dominance comes from the mind not the genitals 4.Thou shalt give your submissive a purpose and assist in their growth and development both as a submissive and a per 5.Thou shalt remember that fantasy is only doable in short bursts. Reality must and will eventually return and thou must be prepared to deal with it. 6.Thou shalt remember to grow in your Dominance and understand that there is always more to learn and do. 7.Thou shalt remember to respect yourself, your submissive and the lifestyle. 8.Thou shall remember that consent freely given can be just as freely withdrawn 9.Thou shalt remember that the one true way of BDSM does not exist this lifestyle is diverse enough for everyone. 10. Thou shalt endeavor to never dishonor yourself or anyone in the lifestyle I am very sadistic and enjoy the minute planning of a scene to make sure it comes off right. She is my slave. She does top on occasion but only with my permission and by my command. She has also been in the lifestyle many years and has and is growing in both her slavery and as a per. She enjoys male and female equally and looks forward to this part of our journey.